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Don’t know what I’m doing wrong

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Anonymous644778 · 11/06/2023 16:33

In the last few weeks my partner has accused me of cheating this isn’t a new thing happens every so often, I’m completely innocent but always says he has a gut feeling over offered my phone, location ect but he said no as I can delete stuff so wouldn’t matter and this week new one is about sex toys,saying it’s disrespectful to have toys that I have had used on me by other men, ( which is not true) most were personal ones used by me and others were new when we got together. This has never been an issue before but now suddenly is and now playing me off to be the bad one, saying he never feels good enough ect.
I’ve had a lot going on recently and really feel he’s kicking me when I’m always at my lowest post , he also has a hol coming up soon with the guys, feel like it’s something to do with this hol I could be wrong though, literally don’t know where I’m going wrong now I try so hard but never seems like enough
what's the best way to go about this tried so much and l can’t think of what else to do

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FishOnABicycleMadeForTwo · 11/06/2023 16:44

I try so hard but never seems like enough

He’s trained you to feel like you are the problem. It’s not you, it’s him. I’d suggest examining your relationship and asking yourself what you get out of it and why you are with him.

Couldyounot · 11/06/2023 16:58

The only thing you are doing wrong is wasting any more time on this man

Dacadactyl · 11/06/2023 17:15

He's bad news OP.

AuntieDolly · 11/06/2023 17:46

Is he planning to be unfaithful on holiday and is projecting?

Whenwillitallmakesense · 11/06/2023 17:53

The only way to go is out the door. He clearly has huge insecurities and is making you feel guilty and to blame. Please get out now before it gets any worse.

Anonymous644778 · 11/06/2023 18:16

AuntieDolly · 11/06/2023 17:46

Is he planning to be unfaithful on holiday and is projecting?

This is what I’m thinking, always curiosity got the best of me and decided to check his insta and he has followed so many girls on there recently, that look nothing like me, all young without the mum body ect

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EyelessArseFace · 11/06/2023 18:25

Life's too short to spend it with a shit like him. It doesn't matter what you say or how you try to defend yourself, he won't ever trust you and he's using it s a stick to beat you with, so there is literally no point in bothering.

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