Does anyone have any advice about how best to tell a 5 year old and a 2 year old that mummy and daddy are splitting up. My husband and I are about to part company after 9 years of marriage. It was his decision and no one else is involved. I was devastated initially but I am now getting used to the idea. I have good days and bad days, it is really scary to think I will soon be living on my own and having to cope alone although I know loads of other woman out there are managing OK. My first concern is for the kids and how they will react. Do you think we should tell them that daddy does not love mummy anymore or should we make out that it is a mutual decision. What sort of reaction should we expect? Any advice gratefully received.