How would you feel if your DH said this?

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Every now and again DH will say something that upsets me, makes me feel a bit shit tbh. I’m looking for honest answers as I get the impression that he thinks I’m a bit over sensitive.

I will keep this brief. If your DH said that you used to be really slim, but now he thought you just looked like everyone else would you be slightly hurt?

Since having our dc I’ve gone from a 8/10 to a 10/12. I’m not quite the way I was when we married. It bothers me at times. How would you feel if your DH said the above? I just think it’s a bit unnecessary and not nice. Am I over sensitive?

Thank you.

I raised it today and he said I was character assassinating him.

id more issue with that tbh.

And the fact he reacted like this rather than apologising would make me think it wasn’t that ‘he was too truthful’ or ‘a bit blunt’.