Struggling to move on

[Lieslies]

I kicked ex out in September because he had an affair.i know he's a shit, but I still miss him every day.i even dream about him at times. I miss my old life and the old him. I never really got answers and I think that's why I can't move on.

I had counselling for 3 months at the time.

I don't want him back, but how do I get him out of my head once and for all. I tired of suffering because of this twat.

You don’t miss him you miss the thought of him. Ultimately you are grieving what should have been. He didn’t love you and you deserved better. I think with each relationship you understand more about what you don’t want than do want.

Take him back - so you'll be reminded why you wanted out in the 1st place

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Time time time time time…. You genuinely just need time. I sympathise with the feelings of not having had closure but honestly you just need time! Stick with it.

Don't waste any more time thinking about him. Concentrate on the present and on yourself. Take one day at a time. Be good to yourself and think about what you want to do now that you are free!

Thanks, I appreciate the support when I was having a wobble.