Message after sex with someone new

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Been dating a man for a few weeks now, all good daily contact etc, last night was date 6 and he invited me over to his, had sex snd after he asked me to stay, I was going to leave then this morning he got up to work and told me I could sleep in

After I left this morning he messaged a hour later saying

Thanks for the visit xx

I responded that I had a nice evening

We than exchanged a couple of general chit chat messages and that's been it

I'm feeling a little unsure about things now, there was no discussion of seeing each other again and I a little panicked that he was just after sex and no he's got it all the contact will die out

Though. Also think it's positive that he messaged within a hour of me leaving

What do you think

So it was only this morning that you left his house, and he's at work today? If he's working surely that explains why he's not initiating chats by text. I know some people are glued to their phones all day but I rarely use my personal phone when I'm at work.

I think it's because he's South African. Still, no need to chase him, maybe he just wants to take it slow.

I think your probably reading too much into the wording of his message. Give it 48 hours and if you haven't heard from him then message and ask when he's free. If he brushes you off then he has no intention of seeing you again

Sounds fine to me. I wouldn't over-analyse it. You had a nice time and both messaged afterwards. What's the pressure to immediately arrange the next date?

I would ignore that visit text because he actually left you in his home alone. It shows he trusts you. I wouldn't let this one slip away just yet.