Esstenders has convinced my marriage is over.

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I was sobbing when Jay was telling her how beautiful she was , my DH would be utterly useless I'm not even sure I'd want him there when I died. I don't know if it's a phase but I'm really struggling now. Has anyone managed to revive a relationship where you are both miserable?

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In my experience, no.

Once you’re both miserable and checked out it’s better to go your separate ways. Things weren’t awful with my exh, he’s a nice guy and we’re still on friendly terms but we definitely weren’t meant to be husband and wife.

Long term relationships rather than marriage and I don't know how having kids and the difficulties involved would factor in but in my experience if you're both unhappy and not making each other feel good then it's time to part on civil terms. Would counselling be worth a try?