Bf and I have been together over 2yrs. He's met my DC because he occasionally stays over when they're around, but I haven't met his DD (12) because she's against the idea of him having a gf, which I've been fine with because it doesn't seem to affect our relationship for now.
He's been on holiday this week and sent me photos. One of them was with her sitting on his lap, her holding him around the neck and his hands around her waist. Another was at a restaurant with them sitting next to each other and her left hand reaching over and holding his right hand if you know what I mean.
In both of the photos she looked at the camera unsmiling in a very "he's mine" kind of way.
AIBU to feel weird about this? I do hope that we will live together one day, but honestly after seeing these photos I don't see how that will be possible and I feel like cutting and running (but that's my default reaction, which is why I'm asking for opinions).
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monte8 · 30/05/2023 23:05
Btw, I have a DD the same age, and mine seems much younger. There was nothing childlike about those photos.
monte8 · 30/05/2023 23:05
Btw, I have a DD the same age, and mine seems much younger. There was nothing childlike about those photos.
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