been with husband for 24 years married 20. He’s just turned 59 and lately I have felt things have changed . A few weeks ago he said he was having a golf lesson and because he had previously said he felt a bit suffocated I checked his location which strangely he wasnt sharing so then I checked it on his iPad and saw he was outside a pub near said golf course. I drove there and sure enough his car was there. I felt sick I parked up for a bit and texted and rang him but no reply. I drove off for a bit then he rang and said he’d finished golf. I drove back to the pub where he was in his car and confronted him. He denied anything said he fancied a drink on his own and said his phone was in the car….he’s glued to his phone . I believed him and he was upset I’d accused him since then we’ve been more intimate and things seemed better.
he’s been saying to me we need to do more things separately and I need some hobbies we’ve also talked about moving house which he seems keen on.
My daughters friend saw him in M&S as well with a blonde woman turns out he’d bumped into her and they went got a coffee she’s a work colleague of both of our married and 56 and due to retire in two weeks. says he likes her company and wants us to socialise more with them personally I don’t want to. He’s always chatting to her at work and said they have things in common.
yesterday he took his phone to go to the toilet for a wee. I said did you take your phone he said yes I keep getting email notifications.
today he’s at work I checked his emails and found one from Etsy for a two heart bracelet with his initial and not mine but coincidentally this woman’s. Her husband has the same initial as my husband .
do I confront him about this when he gets home, I think he’ll say it’s a present for this woman but didn’t mention it to me as I know ger just as well and why would you buy a heart bracelet . I feel sick to my stomach