Thoughts please?

[Thatsnotmyname1985]

So ex DP has moved in with his new partner , 3 weeks after getting In a relationshop , we have 3 DC and for context she has 4 (youngest is 4 months, eldest is 9 according to my DC)This weekend was his weekend and all 3 of our DC (age 3, 6 and 7) were made to share a single bed with one of her DCI am just at a complete loss as to how I approach this - do I say nothing and see what the sleeping arrangements are in two weeks or should I say something to my exdp (who will probably throw his toys out of the pram

Ah I've been in your situation. All I can recommend is trying to get him to go to mediation with you. I basically had to say no contact until we went to mediation.

My ex is a narcissist and it took for the mediatitor to basically tell him he wasn't a fit parent and the children were at risk and needed supervised contact.

For what it's worth, it's bit acceptable sleeping arrangements and it's actually a safe guarding issue. Mediation would tell him they need their own beds even if they are blow up one's on the floor.

Good luck, I know how hard it is to coparent with these nob head's.

I think I have to use the term co parenting loosely at this stage as he genuinely thinks he is doing me a favour by letting me have a break 🤦‍♀️

Mediation is a good call, I will have a look in to this! Thankyou!

Poor poor kids