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Narcissistic cheating husband…

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Isabella78 · 28/05/2023 21:28

Husband cheated with married colleague. Denied anything sexual happened.
I took him him back and the first time we slept together post affair, he whispered something along the lines, sex with you is just so easy or natural.
Cue me stunned, I ask but you didn’t have sex with your married colleague. No of course I didn’t, it was just a turn of phrase. You are crazy.
I am now separated from my husband, with two young children and recovering from intense intense gaslighting.
Anyone else care to share the craziest things they’ve experienced from cheaters?

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Jenny2347 · 30/03/2024 04:02

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CHEESEY13 · 30/03/2024 04:34

Wow! Support and sympathy - cheating is bad enough but he's hopeless at "getting his story straight".

It sounds as if he has every intention of grabbing the opportunity to try and pull the wool over your eyes again. He's trying to have his cake and eat it......

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I wouldn't like it but it wouldn't in isolation make me think he was cheating.

roseheartfly · 30/03/2024 05:15

Isabella78 · 28/05/2023 21:28

Husband cheated with married colleague. Denied anything sexual happened.
I took him him back and the first time we slept together post affair, he whispered something along the lines, sex with you is just so easy or natural.
Cue me stunned, I ask but you didn’t have sex with your married colleague. No of course I didn’t, it was just a turn of phrase. You are crazy.
I am now separated from my husband, with two young children and recovering from intense intense gaslighting.
Anyone else care to share the craziest things they’ve experienced from cheaters?

My ex husband kept changing his phone screen saver. Prior to meeting his mistress, he'd had the same photo of us and then it seemed to change almost every other day, back and to. He said his phone was 'messing up' or 'broken'. I realise he was trying to hide our marriage. It was his wedding ring in the car that sealed it.

Jenny2347 · 30/03/2024 05:17

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effoffwind · 30/03/2024 06:16

@Jenny2347

Start your own thread for better responses

2ndchoice · 30/03/2024 11:11

Just found out about my wifes 2nd affair 6 weeks ago. 11 years ago same situation work colleague, I found out, she denied denied denied, I had an affair in retaliation (I regret it but I was younger and stupid) cue marriage counselling. We went through all that and still denied it all we just friends but I had signs and some evidence. Still denied said I was going literally insane over it, told me I should be on pills, ended with me having a psychological assessment. Now 2nd affair has just come out 6 weeks back, cue lots of talking....11 years ago that previous affair yes she was sexual with him and kissing regularly etc. I said so u remember telling me I was mental and the assessment I ended up having. That's gas lighting

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