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Past insecurities creeping in

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ResIp · 28/05/2023 07:29

I was in a relationship for years which ended 3 years ago. He gave me cause to not trust him particularly regarding other women although I couldn’t actually prove anything. I stayed single and started dating at the end of last year. I met a man who I have fallen for but I’m starting to feel insecure about things. We have a lot of fun together but can be serious too. However, the more my feelings grow the more insecure I’m feeling. I need help to move past it. I’m not sure why they are coming in. He has given me no reason to believe he is being anything but genuine with me but I’m just struggling to accept that he won’t eventually just meet someone else. I know you can’t control that anyway but I don’t know why it is bothering me and how to curb it.

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Whatevergetsyouthroughthenight · 28/05/2023 07:33

Read up on attachment styles. It sounds like you may have an insecure attachment style and on top of your previous experience this could be what is making you feel this way.

Understanding why you feel the way you do is often the first step to managing those emotions. If you can articulate how you feel and why you feel it you can have a conversation about it with your partner that may help.

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