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The end of my marriage

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MaryPoppins2013 · 25/05/2023 20:52

Myself and my husband have been married for almost 18 years, we have twins of 16 and 6 months ago we decided to separate.
We live in the home that we built and I am loathed to move out.
I have moved out of the marital bedroom and into the back bedroom - our sex life died a long time ago.
When we initially decided to call quits, we agreed that the children should finish their secondary education first. This date is literally just around the corner with the exams is finishing mid June.
I suspect my ex husband has met somebody and therefore would like to begin tying up the end of my marriage. . But emotionally I am broken and I just don't know how to move forward.
We need to sell our house and buy/move separately all whilst thinking about our boys.

Advice please xxx

OP posts:
DustyLee123 · 25/05/2023 21:29

Can you buy him out of the house to keep the kids in their home ?

TennisWithDeborah · 25/05/2023 22:14

Have you seen a solicitor yet OP? I think that you need to focus on practical stuff having made the emotional decision six months ago. For me, the priority would be working out a way of one of you staying in the current house in the near-term for the sake of the twins. This may not be financially feasible but it would be good to try.

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