Is he into it or just a player

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In the early stages of dating 4 dates in and daily contact everything is going great except I'm not good at judging situation and second guess all the time weather he's into me or just a player

For our next date he has invited me to his for the first time but has also said can be dinner or cinema if I prefer

On Sunday when I last saw him we are chatting about kids swimming and he recommended a intensive course this morning without prompting he sent me through flyer details of this

We don't chat constantly usually he sends a good morning message, maybe s message around tea time and then a message in evening where we chat a bit and say goodnight

Would you say this is all good sign of somebody interested in dating me

Doesn't sound at all like a player, he seems nice, not too much contact and not too little. Why are you questioning, does something not seem right?

No everything seems perfect which is why I'm questioning it, usually I don't ever get past first date as I'm not into them or they turn into a jerk straight away

This time I like everything about I'm, really attractive, chemistry and I can't help but feel it's all to good to be true these things happen to other people

Nothing sounds bad in that at all. I've been there with him saying all the right things, being emotionally available and mature, no red flags and 3 months later he turned around and blocked me due to lack of feelings.
It's not pleasant but if I went into every new date thinking negative things I just wouldn't date at all. You can't always tell early on so caution is good but don't let it put you off completely.

It looks like he wants to get to know you and he does not send you texts in between because he is working. I would meet him, if you are worried he is a player just meet him outside and don't go to his home just yet.

It's 4 dates, so just go with the flow. It might not work out but it might be wonderful...I assume at 4 dates there's more than just chats on your dates?!

If you feel it’s moving too fast, maybe try and stick to dates that don’t involve going to his or him coming to yours. I only say this if you don’t want to end up in a situation where things could get physical until you are sure of his intentions. If he’s really interested in you, you’ll know because he’ll stick around even if he’s not getting you into bed.