I normally agree with the sentiment of not dating co-workers, but there's one girl who's had me wondering if I should make an exception. We generally don't talk a lot, but I've been wanting to make some type of move since I don't want to miss my shot with her. I've told all of this to a mutual friend and this friend explained to me that she would probably reject me, but not because she doesn't like me, but because she doesn't date co-workers either.
So here's my problem: I want to have a chance with this girl, but I don't know about leaving this job. There's also an issue in that I'm keeping in mind the possibility of her leaving this job as well. She just graduated college and got her degree, and that obviously means that she may be leaving for an actual career, as is the case with a lot of people here when they graduate. A couple of weeks ago, I could've swore I overheard her training a new hire for her exclusive position and it honestly sounded like she might've been training a potential replacement. And I also overheard her friend saying something about my crush being accepted somewhere, but I don't know where she was talking about.
This crush has also started to go out of her way to talk to me more often than she usually has in the past and her behavior has even come across as flirty. I'm not sure if she's doing this because she is indeed leaving or if she overheard that I was looking into a job switch. I'm just really confused about what to do here. I don't want to miss my shot with her, but I feel like my next move is dependant on her future with this job. Either she's leaving soon or she's staying and expecting me to leave. My next move hinges on which one it is and I don't know what to do going forward.