Break up

[Butterfly944]

Looking for some advice.

I’ve been with my partner for over 10 years. I’m only 29 and we’re just not compatible anymore. We don’t do anything together, we have different interests, he doesn’t want children but I do, etc etc.

I think the time has come where we have to part ways but I’m at a complete loss of how to go about everything.

My partner owns our house so I would have to move out & go back to my parents.
But do I leave straight away? What about all of my things? It would take me days to move all of stuff and sort out what’s mine and what’s his but I think it would be easier to cut ties and go?
I just feel completely hopeless in this situation on how I go about everything.

Im super scared as I’ve not know any different since I was 18. This man has been in my life for most of my adult years and I feel like I would be starting again. I do love him and feel so sad for the situation but I think I have to do what’s best for me right now.

If anyone has gone through similar then any advice is appreciated.

x

I also had moved in with my ex fiancée , he already had the house. People actually commented on how I was sorted now in life that I never needed a house, it made me sick & the house never felt like my own. I had all of these conflicting thoughts, I should stay because what a waste of 4 years, what would everyone say etc. I know how you are feeling, I felt that way for a very long time before I did go.
Anyway, we weren't a match in so many ways and at 27 after 4 years I left him. It was a rough year afterwards. But, here I am 6 years later, own my own home and have my own career and husband , and I am happy! I found a person who suited me better :)
You will find your person :)
Maybe you will even cross paths again in the future and re connect! All the best.