Relationship has been nothing short of just shitty last 8 months or so, (no cheating lying money issues for context)
generally along the tone of silent treatment spilling into big argument say quote hurtful but maybe truthful things, I’ve slowly started to feel more distant, less sex not generally bothered by his presence.
hes been home from work two hours I’ve fed the kids he’s played with them etc, tells me he’s going to the shop misses me goodbye then texts to say he’s gone for a pint but didn’t want to tell kids as they’d moan and we need to talk when their in bed?
tbh ive kicked off the fact he can’t even tell me this to my face and has gone right before bedtime etc?
weve been together nearly 10 years, is it possible to outgrow each other?
sorry for the word vomit I’m just feeling mehh