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Agreed to move on from argument but stuck in the past

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tm21 · 11/05/2023 19:24

A few weeks ago my partner and I had a horrible argument but we both agreed to move on and give 100% when it comes to mending fences. I’ve been trying solidly for 2 weeks and I’ve been met with nothing but rejection. I brought it up and I had my head bitten off even though we both agreed to drop things. He said he can’t move on that quickly from the argument. I understand it can take time but to me, it’s not fair to say something has been dropped if it hasn’t and I can’t undo the past - I’ve taken accountability for the part I’ve played and apologised (which he never did). I just want to move on and not let the past dictate our future. Any advice?

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LovingLivingLife · 11/05/2023 21:03

I'm not sure everyone can just decide to drop a big argument and forget it happened without working through it. Would you and your partner be open to a short couple's counselling course to work through what happened and start the healing process?

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