So I split from my child’s father for over a year and after a lot of back and fourth I finally kicked him out a week ago. We lived at my grandads house and he has gone to stay with friends and I am staying here. without going into much detail with have a lot of arguments over the last week about things we disagree with for eg, him not paying for his child for over a year due to unemployment ect, what I’m doing with my friends or the fact I funded his whole life for the last 5 months and just couldn’t deal with his behaviours. Due to these arguments I’ve had many break downs because arguing with him is the most stressful thing. My grandad has been my person to lean on, not that I’d voluntarily tell him everything but his heard and seen me upset. We’ve decided obviously to go 50/50 on our child but my grandad says has to pick him up and take him else where and he can’t come in here anymore. My ex is now livid about this as he doesn’t have his own place and will now have to find other places to take his child to spend time with him. I have explained to my grandad that this will make it abit more difficult for him but my ex is trying to get me to argue his corner to my grandad to let him in to spend time with his son, but I am sure there are other things they can do and I’ve even offered to pay. Should I be fighting his corner more because when I don’t it ends up in argument with us and he calls my grandad names and says his in the way of seeing his child when I’ve explained his welcome to whenever he likes but he just can’t come into the house. I say go and do this with your son but ‘he doesn’t want to go out with him’ I’m at a loss really. I don’t want to argue with my grandad about this.