Left my abusive relationship

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I left my abusive boyfriend 2 weeks ago after 13 years black eyes cracked ribs split eye verbal abuse blah blah he was really scary when I left got police involved last night he sent a text saying sorry and hope you find happiness….do you guys think I’ve heard the last of him ??

He's such a creep.
Reject anything he sends you in future if you can.

I think I'd move somewhere he couldn't find me tbh. Change jobs too if possible.

I know it’s only now that I can see my worth …im getting stronger by the day …he just seems really desperate right now and all I feel in numb

Absolutely that is the real him I deserve so much more …I deserve respect

Yes I’m in the process of a molestation order didn’t keep the flowers either my house is secure …he seems so desperate to win me back …but not this time I’m much stronger

To hook the person in their life that gives them the narcissistic feed that they need, people like your ex (and mine) basically have to pretend to be nice.

they are not nice, in their dna they are cruel, they use people as tools to make themselves feel better.

it takes an enormous amount of effort for these damaged people to be nice, to catch their prey. He’s realising now that he’s lost you and is now looking at having to start all over again to hook someone in. The driving power in his head atm is that he’ll lose his prey.

all of this evil behaviour comes from weakness, not power. Make no mistake. He isn’t good enough for you. He never will be. You know he will only get worse if you go back, the ‘nice’ him is a facade, doesn’t exist and never will, unless he wants something.

stay strong, keep him out of your life forever

Thank you such for your reply it helps me so much to look at what you are saying think about it and now you are right as I do have my weak moments it is hard as I'm used to being with him and I now fear being on my own so strange as all I've wanted is to get away