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Feel like I am going mad

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Nex · 09/05/2023 09:29

Firstly I really need a hug, and someone to talk to. This on a long list of stuff going on in my life. Menapause making me feel like I am going a bit loopy. Dh has recently locked his friends list on fb this, only became aware as was looking for surname of mutual aquaintance, not on his phone via mine. Did ask him about the fiends list he said it had happened on it’s own 😂 This got my spidery senses going. Yes I have snooped. It would appear that lots of very young females pages have been liked, on googling it would look like only fans ones. He’s definitely engaging with them as they are coming up on when u open fb, with their latest post. One of main ones is aubsome. Can’t remember the others. Very teenage looking body. Had my suspicions for awhile that he going on only fans as he sent screen shot of some thing, which had a only fans couple on bottom of it, he was working away at the time. However the age of the ones I have seen on his fb are making me feel really uncomfortable. He will just deny it, I have not got a screenshot yet. How can I see if he has Onlyfans account? I know I don’t need to do this but I would be throwing away a lot on the back of a suspicion. Lack of hormones not helping. Thanks for reading. Yes I will be asking him again after I screenshot it.

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MumCat2020 · 12/05/2023 23:46

It depends on your boundaries. I have always been comfortable with my husband looking at online images and it wouldn't bother me. Maybe he feels that the menopause has made you prefer not to have sex and he is trying to get it somewhere else? OnlyFans is pretty impersonal, it's not an affair, it's not feelings. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. I think you need an open discussion, without going in angry and accusatory. If you aren't comfortable with it, then you have the right to say that.

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