Support to fully end things with husband

[Dizzydream]

I have recently discovered my husband has been cheating with more than one person over the course of a year and also for definate one kiss at least in 2021 ...I feel so worthless so low I just keep letting him back Iv only known about 6 weeks so still very fresh but I know i don't want to be with him just can't seem to find the strength to end things permanent. Children involved however contact can very easily be sorted amicably through a mutual loved one. I just can't seem to end things completely it fills me with panic please just support positive stories from the other side anything to give me that boost I need

That's horrid @Dizzydream, so sorry. Change is very daunting for most people and it probably looks like the abyss out there but it WILL be fine. New future, new opportunities, keep strong and focussed, the sooner you rip the plaster off the sooner you'll heal

You are not worthless! You do need to get out of that situation with your self respect intact. I know it's scary and daunting but just start getting things together. Make an appointment with a solicitor, look at your finances and just start getting the ball rolling. There are so many inspiring stories on here of women who have left and found happiness. It will be tough for a while but you WILL be ok! One day you'll be in your own place, with your children and not have to worry about where your exH is and who he's with. It will be freeing. Believe in yourself x

My blurt out came during a smaller disagreement that escalated quickly. Getting angry in the moment made me less fearful.

But I also tempered it by saying I wanted relationship counselling or it was over. He made it easy by saying fuck off and walking away.