My husband isn't very interested in seeing me naked.
And come to think of it, he never really has been, since we were dating. He talks about how he finds me attractive though.
I'm a size 12 (not that size should matter, given all sizes/shapes are attractive to different people), with a fair amount of cellulite on the thighs. I've always been self-conscious about my body, since I was about as aged 12 - and I'm now in my mid 30s. I've never been thin and have a curvy shape with some wobbly bits.
He also doesn't like me seeing him naked when walking round the room. I often tell him I like seeing him naked, and that it would be nice if we could both be more relaxed
But he never says back to me that he wants to see me naked more. This makes me even more self conscious. I feel like he'd rather not see me naked. So I tend to hide when getting dressed etc.
I find it weird that we only see each other naked under the covers. I wish we could both be relaxed.
Is this at all normal??
We don't yet have kids, but am thinking it would feel weird when I'm hiding my naked pregnant body.
I thought this would become more relaxed with time, but it hasn't.