Is this suspicious

[Ugo]

Other half has his own plumbing company.
recently he had been doing some work for a female friend of a friend.

There is no back story, we are happily married, so I thought. Never any trust issues. But I will pre-fix this with saying I’m peri so my hormones are all over & I don’t know if I’m over reacting.

Basically, he’s mentioned her ++ at times other times is cagey if I mention her. She rang him while we were on holiday & he was super quick to silence his phone. He told me he’d finished the work, then a week later he’s back round there saying there’s something else to do. I have been open & asked him if there is anything going on & if he fancies her, he said no. He said he’d show me all communication with her & he has.

All messages are mostly mundane. But one conversation a message she sent has been deleted, she then asks him how long he’ll be at her house as she has a bed being delivered. He replied saying he’ll be there all day, she then says send me a pic & he says what of? She replies ‘🤣🤣 the work’!
Im not happy as it reads to me like sending dick pics. He says not, he was doing multiple jobs & he didn’t know what she wanted a pic of.

He should be reassuring you, not guilting you. I would also ask him to be accountable and tell you if he has further dealings with her. Re What

If you have access to his phone, note her number. Personally, if behaviour still feels off, I'd ring her to elicit her response. Could always be on pretence of organising his work schedule or checking invoices if you have anything to do with his books.

You have a right to agency, to make decisions with all the facts, not be blindsided by a possible affair.

Re What's app, you can see who deleted the message.