I’m struggling to sort this out in my head..
if I say something that’s a problem or whatever and my husband says it’s not a problem for me should that be an end to it or should there be some sort of empathy or adjustment for my point of view?
ranges from silly examples - me saying put the umbrella in the car and him saying no as he doesn’t think it will rain to me saying he’s being a bit moody to saying slow down a bit driving.
sp for the rain if then I say well I think it may do and put it in myself then comes an argument of why his opinion doesn’t matter or an eye roll.
the driving one is because I have been in a serious car accident and get anxious but he takes it a criticism of his driving and says we are safe..
it’s hard to explain but I always get how he feels. He often says I am over reacting but I have said but that’s how I feel if I feel annoyed at him or something - if he can’t see why it’s an over reaction from me.
not sure I’m explaining this well!