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I don't know what to do - please help

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Desperateanddizzy · 30/04/2023 13:02

I'm a complete mess today.
Doubts about my marriage. It isn't great. We're not speaking. If we do, we argue and he always wins and I just feel even more shit about myself.

Watching my gorgeous little 3 year old DD paint and we're both too miserable to give her any attention. I feel desperately sorry for her. She loves her mummy and daddy and it would destroy her if we break the family up.

Had a sickness phobia last few years and trying to sort it out. Spent hundreds on therapy that hasn't worked. Laid here on the sofa with crippling stomach pain because I need to eat, but daren't in case I'm sick. It's not like this all the time, but it's horrific when it flares up like this.

I feel like my life is about to implode and it's a horrible, horrible feeling.

I don't even know what I want from this thread. Probably needs to be in mental health.
But I just don't know what to do. I just feel incredibly sad for my daughter, I feel sad that our marriage isn't working when I desperately want it to.

OP posts:
WeAreTheHeroes · 30/04/2023 13:06

Why do you feel he wins when you argue? You're supposed to be a team that works together so you find a solution together when you disagree. It needs to be both of you compromising in some way. What do you disagree about? If it's so fundamental you can't find a solution you both find acceptable then the relationship may have run its course.

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