What’s your second marriage like compared to your first?

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Just interested. I hope it will happen for me again one day. Lots of people I know seem happier second time around

A revelation! First was abusive, but I learned an awful lot about myself and holding boundaries and what I wanted.
2nd is amazing. A decent genuine hardworking brilliant dad who makes me laugh every day and allows me to be me. Love him to bits

First was just a huge mistake but by eventually having to leave and divorce him I did grow up a bit. He wasn't terrible but we should never have married, we wanted v different things.

Second was real love but he was so ill. It was hard. We loved each other a lot, we struggled and he died.

I love dp but I don't want to be married again. It all feels too complicated when you get the law involved.