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Is my partner hiding something

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Mum27371 · 29/04/2023 20:23

Hi, I was after some advise please, I have been struggling with depression for a while now, its never been as bad as it has been for the past month, its normally worse with my time of the month, but then eases, but this month, my mind wont stop thinking if my partner is loyal and if he has any secrets.
One thought is that he has a child that he has never told me about, before we got together that is, as I always remember one of our very first functions we attended together, a christening as my partner was asked to be godfather but he and the women being godmother could not attend the real christening, so they had some sort of thing to make them official godparents, it did cross my mind they couldnt attend because they was away together (I wasn't in the picture then), there was a little boy running towards us calling Daddy, and the mum says oh he says this to everyone, but its the way she said it and all panicky. Am I over reacting because of my depression.

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Specso · 29/04/2023 20:43

I’m very confused about who was or wasn’t at the Christening from your original post..or whether there was more than one Christening?

Either way, I think your thoughts on this are spiralling. Have you got any reason to think he’s hiding something other than that one incident? Have you asked him about it?

If it was some huge secret between him and the woman you mentioned then surely they wouldn’t have told the child that he’s his Daddy. If a child is told something it won’t be kept a secret for longer than 30 seconds.

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