Hi all. So a couple of months ago I bumped into my ex who split up with me in Feb 2020.
We were together almost 5 years. We didn’t have any ties, no kids, no house etc, we left it on good terms but also agreed it would be a clean split and no contact would take place, which we stuck to.
Through the grapevine I heard she got with someone else, who she was with for a couple of years and has now split with him and also had a child with him who was born last year. Obviously these little snippets you hear from others do hurt/niggle you slightly but you learn its all part of the ‘ex’ process.
About 2 months ago when coming out of a shop I bumped into her and we had a brief and friendly ‘Hi how are you?’ exchange but not too much more.
However since then I can’t get her out my head as well as the idea out of my head that I want to get in contact with her again and just need some honest advice from you guys.
I am in two minds - one side is telling me to leave it, this feeling will go away in time. But the other side is telling me what have I got to lose? As we left on good terms and our recent exchange was also friendly.
The downside of doing either I guess is the same. I may go on to regret it if I don’t contact her, I may go on to regret it if I do.
Advice what you would do or what you would advise a friend please guys :)
thank you for reading x