Staying away

[TD7]

Hi guys I would like some support by means of your comments …..I’ve finally left an abusive relationship after 13 years the past 5 have not been sooooo bad but still been told to go fuck myself and that I’m a fucking idiot that’s nowhere near what I’ve had in the past …black eyes my eye split open drinks over my head in a pub ect ect but now for about the 10th time of leaving him I’m done I know I am how do I keep strong and positive about my future I’m an attractive 56 year old so I’m told but I have no confidence

Confident about your future?

Well, you won't have to worry or anticipate abuse from this creep again.

Personally I wouldn't bother looking to get involved with anyone else for a long time.

Perhaps you could spend some time being single, working out what you love to do, establishing strong friendships.

Is therapy an option? It sounds like you've had the most awful time of it and you could well be in need of some psychological assistance to work through it. And to help you make sure you can recognise abusive people early on in the future.

Also make sure you have plans for work and financial security and stability.

Ultimately, looking to protect yourself in every way you can.

Thankyou so much ….I’m not looking to meet anyone yet it’s just I’ve had installed in me I will only get meaningless sex in the future and I’m better off with him …I have 2 jobs my own house all paid for I work so hard I don’t know why I have let myself suffer this man for so long ….ok I do I have been terrified in the past but I’m ready …I’ve had therapy before when I was beaten up by him 5 years ago I’m going to get some again now