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My life is ruined and destroyed by ex friend and ex partner

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Helplessness89 · 25/04/2023 05:25

Hi everyone I’m in a really tough situation at the moment. Honestly the thing is in 2018 I was hacked by an ex friend and ex partner and they spread some awful rumours about me ( they stopped end of 2019) and it was the worst time of my life ( I tried committing suicide then but I survived)…Cutting the story short I got healed and better and got a really good job and they have just started again. Honestly I don’t understand this, why would they start again after five years ( my ex apologied in 2019 for spreading rumours about me and I chose to forgive him and let everything go and also me and my ex friend and i were cool ( he even owes me over 2 grand that I gave him to get his legal stay in the country)… Honestly, I try to be a good person but I just feel helpless at the moment because I feel like no matter what I do it’s never enough and there is always someone trying to destroy me. I feel like life has been so unkind to me and honestly I feel like I just want to end it. These rumours have reached my workplace and I don’t know where to go from here, I just feel distraught and I feel like I’m having a mental breakdown ( I can’t even sleep) ….. I just can’t live a normal life and why do people have to be horrible ….. life is just so hard for me at the moment. It took a lot for me to heal from what happened before and it’s happening again … I feel so lost and this is the darkest time of my life … Any advice on how deal with the situation? ( I already reported this situation to the police when they did this years ago but they only got a caution and were told not to contact me ever again but the root problem wasn’t solved. And also I have attached the WhatsApp message I sent to him (my ex friend ) when I found he had started hacking me again… I really want this to stop all this as this is really affecting my mental health.

My life is ruined and destroyed by ex friend and ex partner
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ejbaxa · 25/04/2023 08:48

This is a police matter. Report it now.

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