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Anonymous32 · 24/04/2023 16:33

Got to be slightly vague as I could out my self. Told oh I'm unhappy currently in separate beds, own a house together. If we split he'd have to stay here (can't explain why too outing) and I'd have to go to my mums ..... we have 2 dcs 9 and 14. Money wise I think we'd both be fine. Told him Saturday after id seen some stuff on good old Facebook 🙄 it was kinda the straw what broke the camels back. We haven't spoken since he doesn't know how to communicate and he's always been emotionally unavailable. How the fuck do I do this ? And I'm going to be sooooo judged as I'll be the one walking and not the man.

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ThisIsaNiceDress · 24/04/2023 16:37

are you sure he’d HAVE TO be the one to stay in the house?
and why do you think you will be judged for walking out? Whosever judges you for that is not worth your time or effort. Don’t worry about that at all!!

Anonymous32 · 24/04/2023 16:55

ThisIsaNiceDress · 24/04/2023 16:37

are you sure he’d HAVE TO be the one to stay in the house?
and why do you think you will be judged for walking out? Whosever judges you for that is not worth your time or effort. Don’t worry about that at all!!

Yes he definitely will be the one staying. I can't explain the circumstances but it would have to be that way. I know I shouldn't worry about that but still do 😔

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Watchkeys · 24/04/2023 17:14

Well, you can either let other people's opinion of you ruin your life, or you can have some confidence and realise that whatever they think or say, you are your own person, and you do things for your own reasons. You can choose to understand that you make your own rules about what you should and shouldn't do, rather than leaving it up to gossips and backstabbers.

Who's in charge of your life?

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