Wondering what to do!

[Kelbean]

My husband and I have been married since 2018 with two children.

Since Christmas I feel we have began to drift apart. Life is stressful, work is stressful and we are both juggling it all like a lot of couples.

We aren’t intimate at the moment and haven’t been for a good few months. I sometimes think it’s my fault with my body confidence issues but then on the other hand I don’t know that it is just me?

Some days I feel we are more on track than others. I have spoken to my husband about my worries of him being stressed with work and how I feel worried he may not want this anymore but he always reassures me all is well.

I don’t feel there is anyone else ( another woman) to worry about as he is either busy at work or home with us and I do trust him.

I don’t know where to go from here. My brain is frazzled, am I overthinking? But in my gut I just can’t seem to get on with things as they are, it’s really starting to affect me.

I would love some advice and support. Please be kind.

Do you get out just the two of you ever? I know it's really hard with kids. If you can't get out together could you sort out a nice meal for you both and sit away from the tv and eat it so you actually make time for each other? Try to reconnect that way.

If he is a generally nice person to you and there aren't loads of arguments or upset then hopefully you can get back on track.

We don’t go out just the two of us as much as we should. We need to do it more. It’s finding someone to have the kids for us so we can have that time I hope it’s just a blip and things will all work out for us. We don’t argue and never have done we just seem to of lost our way and drifted apart.