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Should I leave

24 replies

Kors · 22/04/2023 15:33

So I’ve know this guy on and off for 5 years, we got together properly around 2 years go up until we split last July, he was msg he ex he previously went out with before me they was together 7 mth no kids no ties he txt her behind my back and all the way though as I found msg, when he said he didn’t have contact I seen he asked her to meet up go for food and other varies overly friendly chats, then we split I found out then he seen her twice and then he wanted to get Bach with me we did stupidly and it’s been bad ever since all’ we do is argue over it, we split up then back together I don’t trust the guy one bit with what he did it was after 2 years when he met her again what’s to say he won’t do this again to me, he’s always been same to msg other woman but the msg was he wanted a relationship with her she said no and he came back to me, I didn’t know all of this in till she sent me the txts he had sent he was saying he thought they would be good together and he loves spending time with her and he wanted it to progress she’s didn’t want too she told him she didn’t want a relationship sorry long post juys want advice did he just make a mistake like he said and regrets it and said he woudlnt of done it or is it a case she didn’t want him so he’s coming back to me

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tsmainsqueeze · 22/04/2023 15:36

Of course you should leave, this isn't a good relationship , have some pride and never be treated like this again.

Greensleevevssnotnose · 22/04/2023 15:37

Yes

Kors · 22/04/2023 15:38

Yes he’s a good liar likes to manipulate you into thinking it was a mistake

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Pixiedust1234 · 22/04/2023 15:49

I couldn't follow most of that, sorry.

Do you trust him? Does he make your life better when he is in it? If the answer for either is NO, then leave.

EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 22/04/2023 16:10

is it a case she didn’t want him so he’s coming back to me

Yes, of course it is. Don't waste your precious time and energy. This man needs to go in the bin.

Kors · 22/04/2023 16:25

Yes I no, don’t no why I find it hard to leave him or why I love him I really don’t no but need bite the bullet and leave

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Plantgeumstoday · 22/04/2023 16:25

You’re second best
leave him

Kors · 22/04/2023 16:32

Yes I needed to hear that your totally right

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Kors · 22/04/2023 16:34

No I do not trust him at all constantly thinking he’s up to no good after all I’ve seen

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CLEO42 · 22/04/2023 16:38

You can decide to end it. It seems like you don't know that you are allowed to make that decision.

Hopelessromatic · 22/04/2023 17:14

When the trust is gone it's definitely time to end it.

Kors · 22/04/2023 22:59

Yeah trust totally gone, he’s a waste of space just a liar

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tailinthejam · 22/04/2023 23:16

Kors · 22/04/2023 22:59

Yeah trust totally gone, he’s a waste of space just a liar

A leopard doesn't change its spots.

You won't be able to trust him again, so continuing the relationship is pointless.

Pixiedust1234 · 22/04/2023 23:17

Then you have your answer. Now you need to move on and find someone decent who makes you happy, or stay single and be happy. But he's not the one.

Olive19741205 · 22/04/2023 23:57

Yes you should leave. Well done for recognising that you deserve better than him and knowing your worth.

Kors · 23/04/2023 13:01

Oh he definitely won’t change been ended and getting constantly bombarded with calls and txts hopefully soon he will leave it

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Mortimercat · 23/04/2023 13:26

I could barely follow that. But I could follow enough to know this is a waste of time.

Mortenharkettsgirl · 23/04/2023 13:38

He is a womaniser. He is a 'cock block' for want of a better word and denying an opportunity to find somebody decent. The epitome of a 'time waster'. Block him and start a brighter future today.

Kors · 23/04/2023 13:59

Sorry was a bit all over shop I was so mad writing it but hope you got the jist of it

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Kors · 23/04/2023 14:00

Yes you are right signs was all there im
the only one that stays for as long as I have

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billy1966 · 23/04/2023 14:37

Total loser.

Block him.

You were only wasting your time.

Kors · 23/04/2023 20:15

Yes the things he’s done is endless tbh, and I’ve forgiven him but comes a time you have to call it a day and move on, he would drop me tomorrow if his ex came back I’ve blocked him but getting endless calls and txts various numbers of his

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Sittwritt · 23/04/2023 21:10

Oh God he sounds awful just a waste of space and joy worthy of you.

Sittwritt · 23/04/2023 21:10

Not worthy of you.

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