Tell me about Adultwork site please

[Goingoutofmymind60]

I posted earlier with the wrong site name, I'm in such a state.
So I saw my DH had this on his phone as a frequent visit.
I didn't open it as I don't know how to work an iPhone but I need to know.
How you log in, do you need an email?
How you pay or is there free stuff on there? Could you pay cash because we have joint accounts...
I'm in a terrible state I feel sick.

I'm sorry @Ontime
I went through the same thing. Worse he hadn't been working and using the money I was earning to pay for it
I'm an idiot.

i k ow someone who used this site after their divorce. joined for free and met up with a man for free. Did not pay a penny.

Sorry to hear that, that's even worse as its your money. The thing is he didn't like sex and was crap at it when we did get intimate. He treated it like a chore. So I'm dead confused why he would have sex with them, unless he had some kind of freakish fetish I don't know about. Maybe he went with a man? I'll never know...but the good thing is the stupid idiot paid for half the furniture in my house and halves on a brand new boiler and now he's in a shit flat in a shit area with 2 plastic chairs and a TV on a stand 😂

You don’t need proof really, my love. You can leave him for any reason you want, at any time. The fact that you’ve been subjected to this doubt several times before and he still hasn’t respected your boundary would hopefully be enough?

He’s continually prioritising his access to these sites over the boundaries agreed in your relationship.

I used to work on Adultwork OP-if there's any questions I may be able to answer.
It isn't just an escort site though. I was only a camgirl. You can sell used knickers/smelly shoes etc on there too.

I do the same I meet up for free

Sure you’re not think of the adult friend finder website?

Sorry just realised this was old post.

It's not difficult to prove. You need to get into his history and look for the links with big long strings... then you'll know he's logging in / using the search

It's one thing it pops up on a browser window. But if he is clicking though then he is using it. It's a highly addictive habit - it's for shopping for prostitutes in your area.

I have a question related to the topic ,my husband's bank statements shows he pays every month £10 to adultwork.com
What is that subscription for ? Just watching videos ? Or something else

I'm not sure. Sounds like hes watching content. I finished my ex partner of 9 years last year as he was actually going to escorts houses to have sex with them. I have trust issues now. I don't trust men. I'm happily single now. Have you confronted him?

My partner has been searching Adultwork and on hes search history there are loads of pages he’s been on, is there any way of me finding out if he’s actually interacted with someone on there?

You would need his email address and password to log on. He will likely have a second PAYG phone for bookings and a separate email. He will probably delete everything and not give you any info however.

That’s what I’m worried about as when going on there looking at what he has viewed it doesn’t really show if he’s interacted with anyone one on one, but am I being stupid for just being upset for him looking on there?

You're not being stupid at all, he is with you and shouldn't be looking at or using that site.

Bloody hell you can pop a wank on klarna these days.

Any transactions he had made through the site will show up as "AWS" on bank statements

You can buy sex workers video content, pay to watch cam girls etc. You can't book at actual meeting with a SW and pay on there though. He would have to arrange via phone or by messaging the woman on AW.

And no you aren't being stupid. No attached man should be looking on AW. I'd argue no unattached one either given how vile it is.

If theres only a google search for 'Adultwork' and then says visited the site but nothing else then he has just literally clicked on it and not actually viewed anything?