My mum died in December and the inquest was this week. After it, I came to my DH and told him what had been said in it (accidental death, as expected, so nothing shocking but obviously still sad etc). His response was literally 'Huh.' I'm not joking, literally that, not even a proper word. He's useless with difficult emotional stuff a s I've known that for years but things like that I just struggle to see how he can't see that's unacceptable. He has t said another word to me about the inquest since then and I feel like I don't have the energy to raise it with him. Just one example like this, sadly I could give loads.