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please help me with my situationship i am so confused

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chanish · 18/04/2023 16:42

I met a boy on social media and we've known each other for about 8 months. We met in August and talked until October, then we stopped talking and he texted me back at the beginning of March and we started talking again. During these months, he said that he had a girlfriend for about 1 month. When we talk, we talk for hours, but he only writes to me at night and responds very late during the day. As I know beforehand, he has a digital drawing job and works as a freelancer, so he says he is busy. and tells me that he can only look at his phone at night. I asked about this before, and he said he didn't see me as a friend and that he liked me almost 3 times or so, but I didn't say it back. He didn't even ask for a photo, even including a photo of my face. never talked about anything seual. didn't even mention anything seual to me. When I told him about this situation, he just said that I was very thinking too much (texting topic) and this shouldn't be a topic of discussion. In addition, although we made a plan, we never video chat or voice chat before, we do not follow other social media accounts, such as snapchat or so we do not have our phone numbers. All we do is message and chat on Instagram I don't know what to do. I think I'm slowly feeling distant because of the late replies but I still want to text. i dotn know what I should do and also we do not live in the same city bıth uni students he is 2 years older than me.

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WhineWhineWhineWINE · 18/04/2023 17:22

It doesn't sound like he's particularly interested in getting to know you any further than a late night text buddy. Is it really worth your effort?

JimmyDurham · 18/04/2023 20:35

Why are you bothering. He's not really that interested. Move on.

samantha0709 · 18/04/2023 20:41

Sounds like a waste of energy

tailinthejam · 18/04/2023 20:55

If you just want to chat randomly with someone online, fine.

If you want friendship, or the possibility it might develop into a relationship at some point in the future, you are totally wasting your time. Aside from everything else, you have absolutely no idea if he is even who he says he is, or all a pack of lies.

DelphiniumBlue · 18/04/2023 20:59

DS is a digital artist, and he and his colleagues/friends are online talking /texting the whole time. Just saying.

Spin66 · 18/04/2023 21:10

OP. What’s seual - No offence, but the rest of your post is very eloquent and mostly grammatically correct. Just asking?

RedEyeBaby · 18/04/2023 21:24

Spin66 · 18/04/2023 21:10

OP. What’s seual - No offence, but the rest of your post is very eloquent and mostly grammatically correct. Just asking?

She's starred out the letter x ro make it seual but because she did it twice, it thought it was an instruction to bold* the text

RedEyeBaby · 18/04/2023 21:24

Ah
I fell into the same trap.

Se*ual

chanish · 18/04/2023 21:35

oh i meant sexual but i censored it

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chanish · 18/04/2023 21:41

when i asked him whether he sees me as a friend and he responded multiple times that he liked me but i guess you are right it really opened my eyes now thanks...

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Spin66 · 18/04/2023 21:49

Fair enough Chanish. I was just being cautious, as sometimes it can result in others clicking on links that they would rather not.

As for your OP. He sounds like someone that you like. But you have to take what he is telling you as how he feels.

Life is rubbish at times, but please don’t do t waste you mental energy that doesn’t show the same energy back to you.

Mingeater · 18/04/2023 21:51

This is really a waste of your time. Turn the computer off, go out, meet real people and speak. It’s great fun!

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