Tell me about getting my ducks in a row

[DangerPigeon]

Not sure which way our marriage is going to go but I'm feeling it would be sensible for me to get things in order as it feels like it's crumbling.

Can anyone suggest any handy guides for what I might need to do if things go south?

We have teenagers, own a (mortgaged) house together, both have our own income, neither of us have big savings, would probably split assets and responsibilities 50/50. No threat or worry of violence.

It could take months to agree to sell, sell the house and find somewhere to live, so you might think about if you’d rent or both hang on in the house to sell.
Check Wills as you might choose to change them.
Look at life insurances and pensions —- they’ve often had a beneficiary written into them and it’s easy to forget.

Take photos or copies of all house documents.