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Not sure what to do

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Heidiiiu · 16/04/2023 09:22

So I have got myself into a really stupid situation but i need to explain so here goes.
I have been with my partner for nearly 9’years we are still young and have two kids together, I’ve not long had my baby and I went out for my nieces birthday I don’t drink but this night I was so drunk but my ex (which is my boyfriends friend) we all get along like normal as it wasn’t a serious relationship , we was talking outside and Im sure we kissed I have a horrible gut feeling it was only once and I’ve never done anything like this in my life. Im confused why it would happen cos I have seen him out before and never had this happen. I really want to be honest but I’m worried as the guy has a partner and child and I don’t want everyone to know mine and my boyfriends business so I’m worried what my partner is going to do. Does anyone know how I can tell him? I feel like I’m going out my mind with worry I just feel so guilty and I would rather be honest than lie

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Smooshface · 16/04/2023 09:31

It is a drunken snog that you don't even remember - are you really prepared to blow up everyone's life over it? You have no idea how any partner will react over this. I'm all for honesty if there is a purpose, but this will just hurt everyone involved. I would just get used to the guilt and try and move on - and don't get in that situation again.

Heidiiiu · 16/04/2023 09:48

I would never do something so stupid in my life again I won’t even drink now because of it but I feel so guilty and I am worried incase the guy ends up telling someone and I will look worse for not being honest with my boyfriend im overthinking a lot I wouldn’t even know how to explain why I couldn’t tell him if he finds out from someone else

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