I've recently started dating again and met someone off tinder around 7 weeks ago. I'm 26 and he's 31. We get on really well and have spent lots of time together over the last few weeks. He's funny and seems really kind, but he still lives with his parents. It's not a huge issue, but I moved out when I was 19 and I honestly couldn't imagine still living at home way into my 30's. We don't particularly live in an expensive area.
One thing that's worrying me, is that he keeps on making comments about how skint he is. For example, he said last week that he was going to take on a few extra shifts in work because he was fed up of always being skint. I know he doesn't pay towards living at home because he told me. He has tried to give his mum money and apparently she's just refused. He does have a nice car (which I presume is on finance) but there's no way it would be more than a few hundred pounds a month. He's not stingy by any means and has paid for lunch/dinner every time, any activities that we've done (even though I've offered), bought me flowers etc. I just don't understand why he's skint when he doesn't have any large bills and earns a full time wage. I've known people to pretend their skint even when that's not the case, so maybe he's like that? It's very odd though.