Dear mumsnetters, please help me calm me down after a ghosting.
I’m 41F divorcee no children. Good career own house etc.
Met a guy on OLD - first 3 months we met up a lot (but long distance). Then he made plans to come spend the weekend with me - which he cancelled due to work. He then cancelled again. Then I had to cancel. Then I said to meet halfway again - he cancelled 3 times. Now because he was constantly messaging, phoning me I thought ah ok maybe he is busy with work otherwise I would have sacked him off.
the last time he cancelled I just said to him that I’m confused why you keep in touch but don’t meet. He replied saying he will reply to me later that day but hasn’t - this was 2 weeks ago and not heard from him since.
After going through feeling it was all my fault, am I not good enough, crying etc. Now I’M JUST SO ANGRY at him. I really feel like doing a good old fashioned throwing eggs at his car or puncturing his tyres etc.
Anyone help to process this anger in a healthy way (or give me funny suggestions to exact revenge)? Before you ask I’m already speaking to my therapist about this!