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Moving in together

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Bobb40 · 13/04/2023 12:22

I have been with my partner 3 years and have wanted to move in together for a while now I finally broached the subject yesterday to him to be told he’s not ready and can’t give me a time frame could be the end of this year could be next year could be in a couple of years. I was extremely upset and I am now unsure of what to do should I leave this relationship or hang in there and hope he will want the same things that I do eventually.

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emptythelitterbox · 14/04/2023 02:10

I'm not sure why you'd want to live with him.
You'd end up with all the housework and wife work.

Who needs that!

I'd just stick to dating and make him take you out and do fun things and not just be a sofa warmer at yours or his.

TheKobayashiMaru · 14/04/2023 05:34

He clearly wants to keep things as they are and not make a commitment to you. It would be a deal breaker for me as it would feel as if he has been stringing me along. His reasons are BS.

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