Moved into a gated development, I thought it would be really friendly etc but it’s not. I suffer from social anxiety but hide it really well so we’ll in fact that my close friends don’t believe I have it.
ivevtruedvyo be friendly and say hello every time I see anyone. I also in the beginning went out on purpose when I saw kids n parents cycling n scootering on my private driveway (another thread on there) but it doesn’t lead to anything!
even parents with kids close in age to move I’ve said come over but met with many excuses. I say hi to one mum in particular and asked her for coffee she always says that would be nice but nothing goes anywhere.
there’s a Facebook for the residents of the development and I went on there to introduce myself and apart from one like and welcome it was largely ignored. What am I doing wrong?