So I’ve been involved with a girl for 13 years. Started as an affair as she was married, needless to say she’s divorced now. However I seem to believe I’m being used for money. A couple of years ago she had asked me to pay for her divorce round 2 so I paid the 2700 and come to find out 30 days later she goes on a trip with a friend who has talked smack about me but offered no financial help at the time and pays for the trip to Georgia. The problem I have is we haven’t physically seen each other in years as she would never commit to a time or date but my money was good enough? Shouldn’t she have taken the time to actually meet me and stop using excuses? I’ve helped her with 12k worth of help over 13 years and she thinks talking to me for 3 minutes and 2 texts in a day is showing appreciation and that I’m a priority. I believe she has checked out and has no use for me…am I wrong?