Man And I Booked A Holiday. What Do You Think It Says?

[kpdchudleigh]

I started online dating a year ago. Early on I connected with a man on all the apps but it took the Bumble match where I had to message first for us to get chatting. We had a very natural rapport from the outset but due to prior plans both of us had and a bit of distance we couldn't meet for a month.

I'm confused by your last post in comparison to your first post.
They read as a contradictions to each other.

Get separate rooms!

He sounds boring and childish, all this flip flopping, not sure why you'd bother? You sound great, just block him and find someone else?

This happened to a friend of mine. She got very drunk on there last night, passed out and woke up with his fingers inside her. Be careful.

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@kpdchudleigh just don't think too much of it, don't overthink. Go and and have fun but don't think this will become a relationship or it's a sign of commitment.

Men can be a real mess after divorce, even a couple of years on, hot and cold, flattered by attention, then thinking something is moving too fast, wanting sex and intimacy, not wanting it, feeling it's moving too fast, feeling like nobody will be interested in them... All sorts.

Enjoy the holiday and you're old enough to enjoy whatever happens out there, if anything, but separate rooms to avoid any awkwardness, and look after yourself and your feelings.

I'm too scared to ask what appropriate, unchaste, amorous. intimate stroking without kissing involved...🤔
Sorry OP, but this all sounds dodgy as fuck. You've met him twice in a year, he's told you repeatedly there's to be no romance and you've booked a holiday and sharing a room (bed?) But you're really hoping he'll 'offer' you a relationship?

@Dontbelieveaword I like your user name !