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Mumwarrior · 10/04/2023 21:38

Anyone got any pearls of wisdom.

OH left, cheated and moved his new life into a rental property we shared together. She still lives there, I cannot accept her being in my home - like who would. Trouble I have is, AS OH allowed her to live there, I can't see how I get her out my house, without loosing money??

Solicitor said several avenues to go down and all will end up costly for me, as OH/ Tennent can argue he agreed to the person living there. MY mental wellbeing is the issue, I can say-- the rent is paid, or that's my pension etc. But how do I get control back, as my name is on the house. I don't want to renew the tenancy, but I go round the legal loops- he let her? If i do the section 21, they can not pay rent, play the game and still stay there- as he agreed to it. No way is easy. But I cannot live a relaxed stress free life facilizing a person, who has no morals. My Ex will not work with me - he says it is her home.

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PousseyNotMoira · 10/04/2023 21:40

I don’t understand this post, I’m sorry. But go with what your solicitor has advised. You’re not going to get better advice on Mumsnet than you’ve received from a legal professional.

MasssiveSalad · 11/04/2023 09:35

I don't understand sorry.
If you had legal advice follow it, the solicitor would have more facts and knowledge than any of us here, strangers on MN can help you with.

Specso · 11/04/2023 09:46

I’m not sure I understand. Are you looking to get them both out of the rental property so you can move back in and live there?

If you don’t want to live there and just want your name taken off then I’d do whatever is necessary to get that sorted, put into their names and move on.

If you’re just looking to get her out to make you feel better in some way because you feel wronged and annoyed I really wouldn’t waste your time, money or energy. He’s moved on with her and to regain your sense of peace and wellbeing you need to put both of them out of your mind completely and move forward in your own life in a positive way.

GreyCarpet · 11/04/2023 09:52

Your post isn't really very clear but given the advice you'd receive here is 'get legal advice' and you've already done that, there's not a lot a lot anyone here could say.

Is he now living in a rental property you both own with her?

I'd follow your solicitor's advice tbh.

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