We weren't really friendly but had a good neighbour relationship, she would call round occasionally with her dd but slowly since her divorce she seems to avoid us. Even when it comes down to her dd, she will try and avoid situations where my dd could play with hers
Have tried in the past suggesting if she wanted to go to places together with dd, pop round for coffee or help with babysitting but she has never taken me up on anything, which is fine, if she doesn't want to.
The last straw was when she dropped a pressie round for dd on her own to avoid dd's having any contact, when it would of been so easy for them to come round together as she dropped it off 3 days before dd's birthday and they weren't going away or anything.
My mum thinks she acting in this way because she trying to cut off all ties with her ex-husband, what do u think?
I suppose we will just have to get used to her being like this because i can't really see that anything will change and obviously wouldn't want to say anything, but it just makes me feel so sad that it has to be this way and dd is missing out.