So, there’s a lot to this story but I’m gonna try make it as short as possible! I met a man! Thought he was ‘the one’ treated me amazingly. After a year I fell pregnant and everything changed, constant lying, cheating, drinking and getting verbally abusive, I had the lot! Mentally he destroyed me!
I then began to realise I was with a very nasty and narcissistic man, the blame always on me for things he had done, constantly made me feel like shit and I even lost friends because he was nasty to them when drunk and if I’d leave him he would threaten to commit suicide.
anyway, I am stupidly still with this man with the promises of ‘change’ and I’ve known for a while now that this will never happen and I don’t want to be with him, but my problem is this….
he turns very nasty when I leave him, his drinking gets worse and he drink drives, now I know that I will need to cut all forms of communication with him for my own mental health but what I’m struggling with is my son who is 2 years old, I don’t want him anywhere near him because of the way he behaves or I atleast want his access supervised.
so my question is this….it is on doctors file that he is an alcoholic, I have messages to show just how nasty he gets when I leave him, threatening to take my son away, I have messages of him admitting drink driving and threatening to commit suicide. Will any of this be taken into account by a court if he went for access??
the thought of him looking after my son when he drinks the way he does and potentially drink driving with my son makes me feel sick just thinking about it!