I'm only 32 but I feel like I'd be quite happy to never have sex again. DH is actually really good in bed, very attentive and eager to please. I just feel like there are so many things I'd rather be doing! It feels like a massive chore. It's not him - I don't think I'd want to have sex with anyone else either.
Major disclaimer - we have two DC under 4, so life is knackering at the moment. I've also gone on antidepressants since they were born, which I know can have a major impact on libido. However, they've been so life-changing that I'm not willing to mess about with them, plus my sex drive was probably lower than average even before that anyway.
I have told DH that my drive is very low these days, and we had quite a chat about it. He suggested that since his drive is high and he could happily have sex every day, it should mainly be me initiating so that I don't feel pressured when I'm not in the mood. He is a brilliant partner and I want him to feel loved and satisfied, so I do "fake it" and make the effort a couple of times each week. I usually do end up enjoying it and having an orgasm. But I'd still rather be watching TV or reading a good book! Is anyone else like this? Is it likely to improve as the DC get older? Not sure why I'm writing this really. I just wonder if it's only me!