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Buying a property solo

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Nelty · 08/04/2023 15:13

I have been with dp for 8 months and while things are going well, we are both still young (30) and have no kids, and it’s early days. He already has his own home and mortgage and I want to do the same. I’m a fairly high earner with a good deposit and he also has really good earning potential - I can’t see the harn in us doing this and obviously he is free to move with me if he wants and then in a few years we could buy together. He seemed shocked when I suggested this and now I’m wondering if it’s a weird thing to want to do?

OP posts:
Jojobalone · 08/04/2023 15:14

Red flag that he’s “shocked”

Jojobalone · 08/04/2023 15:14

But seriously OP. You are questioning your desire to buy a house based on a DP you’ve known all of 8 months? Woman up!

DustyLee123 · 08/04/2023 15:15

No it’s not weird.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 08/04/2023 15:15

Get yourself a house OP. Then you can choose whom you want to live in it with you.

Jojobalone · 08/04/2023 15:23

Last week you started a thread about thinking you should finish it with him 🤔

Nelty · 08/04/2023 15:34

@Jojobalone that wasn’t what I said explicitly no. Also why are you stalking me?

OP posts:
Jojobalone · 08/04/2023 15:40

Because I read it!

You thought he’d made a racist comment and you actually say that you’re thinking you should finish it!

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