Weekend away - should I go?

[MayasJam]

A friend of my boyfriends has invited me for a weekend staying in a rented house for her 21st birthday.

I’ve never met this friend, only met a couple of his other friends who will be going once before. I’ve only been with boyfriend for 3 months so not a long term relationship either.

I’m having trouble deciding if I should go or not and need to give him a decision by today. On the one hand I’d love to go and spend time with boyfriend, and he’s said he’d love for me to go. But on the other hand I feel really cheeky turning up to the party of someone I’ve never met and taking the place of a ‘proper’ friend who could stay with them instead. Obviously places are limited with sleeping arrangements at the house.

in this situation, would you go or not go?

I'd go. He wants you there and to meet his friends. It's nice that they invited you.

Go! You've been invited so that means she wants you there. Maybe you'll be sharing a double bed with your boyfriend so she couldn't just invite someone else in your place anyway?

You’ve been invited, you want to go, he wants you to go, not really sure why you’re procrastinating over this

100% go! Based on what you have said you are wanted there! And it may actually be rude you declining so your politeness will back fire

Have fun and make new friends x

I’d go.

At 21, I’d go. Save these types of complex worries for 25 years time when you are dragging baggage.

Go, how else do you get to know his friends if you don’t accept invites? Not really sure what the issue is.